Carrying the Mental Load
The keystone. Every recurring question gets a standing answer, the weekday batch hands you only the few decisions that are truly yours, and Sunday night the week is pre-mortemed, its collisions fixed, and held in one note so it never has to live in your head.
Your Righthand carries the load so it isn't carried twice. It keeps a defaults register of every question the house keeps asking, which sitter, which pizza, what bedtime, what to spend on a classmate's birthday, and applies it without asking. Each weekday at noon it sweeps everything that wants a decision from you and hands you at most three, each with options, a recommendation, and a one-tap yes, or says nothing. Sunday night it reads the whole week across every family member, finds the collisions before they happen, lightens the week if it's overloaded, says no on the family's behalf where a no is owed, and sends one note, what's held, what's coming, the few asks, and then goes quiet. Your own workouts, sleep, friends, and doctor are protected with the same ferocity as the kids'.
What's in the pack.
4 skills, installed together — your Righthand arrives already equipped for the job.
- Self Management
Mental Load Management
Carry a family's mental load for a parent: a defaults register so recurring questions stop being decisions, a weekday decision batch that hands the parent only the few calls that are truly theirs, the Sunday pre-mortem that finds the week's collisions and fixes them before they happen, the "handled means proven" confirmation norm, lightening an overloaded week, absorbing social friction (the declines, the hosting ask, the volunteer role), and protecting the parent's own infrastructure. Use for the decision batch, the week-ahead, any recurring question, and any time the parent is about to carry something the system should hold.
- Calendar And Meetings
Working With Calendar
Manages a USER's connected Google Calendar or Outlook calendar via `agent connection tool-exec`. Use when the user delegates calendar work to you on THEIR account — checking their availability, scheduling meetings on their schedule, accepting/declining invites for them, coordinating attendees across timezones, or auditing their calendar for conflicts. Applies the same scheduling, etiquette, and timezone wisdom as `my-calendar` but executed against the user's connected calendar instead of your own. The calendar belongs to THEM, not to you. For your own calendar (the one the Righthand uses `agent calendar` against directly), use `my-calendar` instead.
- Calendar And Meetings
Scheduling Reminders
Use reminders to schedule future actions and ensure nothing falls through the cracks. When you promise to do something later, create a reminder.
- Email And Comms
Working With Email
Operates on a USER's connected Gmail or Outlook account via `agent connection tool-exec` — drafting messages from their address, reading and searching their threads, and triaging incoming replies in their mailbox. Use when the user delegates email work to you on THEIR account: composing outreach from their address, responding to messages in their inbox, classifying replies to a campaign they're running, or organizing their inbox (search, label, archive). The mailbox belongs to THEM, not to you. For the Righthand's own inbox (using `agent email` directly), use `my-email` instead.
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